Should I be mad at my husband? ?

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Honestly, everything sounded basically ok to me until the part where he denied your friend request. I'm not married, but I am in a very trusting serious relationship, and exes aren't much of a concern to us. One of my exes is one of my best friends, and he keeps in contact with some of his too. But if I were in your situation, if I were married and my husband refused my friend request right after being called out on his continued correspondence with his ex... I'd feel pretty justified in being upset and suspicious. I'm not saying that he's probably cheating or anything nearly that drastic (I think this little tiff isn't nearly enough to go on for an accusation like that), but his denying your friend request either means that there is something he doesn't want you to see, or he's just bitter about your argument and he's dealing with it in an immature way. Either way, I think it's probably a good idea to confront him about it. Just try not to sound like you're attacking him or accusing him of anything, because for all you know, his intentions could be perfectly innocent, and taking on an offensive position will only close him off to communication and make things worse.