Should I be mad at my husband? ?

[leena]

WOW, something strikingly similar happended to me. I totally understand WHY your upset. Shoot, I would be upset too! My hubby requesting an ex, denying it, then actually doing it behind my back, yeah i'd be pissed!!! Anyway, to me sounds like those two are still into one another. I'm not trying to add fuel to the fire but I can say this with certainty for I lived that very betrayal for 3 long years. Let me just share my experience. My ex was cheating on me with his ex of 10 years and added her family behind my back on his facebook and was all up on their business all the damn time and when I found out I asked to remove these irrelevant people from his account and he said he would, but he never deleted them from his facebook profile. He was all uptodate on facebook on top of already having their phone numbers, that just went to show me this guy was not over his past, my ex is still clinging on to his ex and all her family, maybe in time they'll get along again and be back together, who knows but I chose to see things for what they were. Im not suggesting you do the same but rather not try to water things down and certainly don't ignore the bright-red flags! Good luck!