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How important is it to you to find your biological parents?
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11-09-2012, 05:13 PM
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It's not impossible. In many states, if you're over 18 and you write a real, snail mail letter to the adoption agency, they will at least keep your letter on file and if the bio-family also writes a letter they will arrange a meeting.
I don't regret finding my bio-mom, but it does hurt that she won't give me a real answer about my bio-dad, and that she never really did want a relationship with adult me. Most bio-moms are grieving the loss of a relationship with a baby and the loss of opportunity to raise a child. However, once in reunion, it's very difficult to come out and say that. My bio-mom is consistent only in her playing hot and cold emotional games with me. I have known many adult adoptees whose reunions have gone the same way. Just a caution to others that while most reunions have the moment of the Oprah-esque tearful hug, the aftermath requires working through a lot of emotions. |
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