My husband left me for another woman and she seems to want to be friendly with my daughter? Is that right?

[blueeyed girl]

The only thing that you should say regarding this is to address the issue of his relationship with this new woman. It's great that she is being kind to your daughter but you may want to tell him that it would be better for the kids not to meet his lady friends unless he sees a future with them as it will confuse your daughter . Imagine the pain your daughter will feel if the relationship between your stbx and this lady friend were to disolve.

I would tell him that while you don't mind the fact that he has a lady friend...he needs to be careful when introducing children to "friends". Children do not need to be introduced to every gal that he brings in and out of his life.