Does my girlfriend have the right to question every girl I add to my Facebook?

[Sam.]

Its not about whether or not she has a RIGHT to badger you about it. Its whether or not she should and why she does it. Mostly why she does it. That's something you should talk to her about. Figure out if she doesn't trust you, if she's just really insecure, or what. I'm a jealous person too. And if I get nosy, its because I'd be insecure. It actually rarely has to do with the traits of the guy I'm with. I'm currently dating someone who is also jealous. And its a lot easier to date someone who also gets a little worked up. NOT someone who's controlling or demanding, but someone who can get a little insecure or worried sometimes. Not too much, but it feels nice sometimes if my boyfriend says he sometimes gets a little worried about guys at the college I just went away to. I think you should figure out why she's so paranoid and needs to know everything. Try to pay attention to her instead of getting defensive because that will likely lead to fighting which will probably get you no where constructive.