What exactly did the Rutgers student do?

[Darren 周]

Shame, he was ashamed of being gay. Unlike heterosexuals, have nothing to feel ashamed of doing a natural act. If the girl has a sexy body to boot! all the more power to her. Gays have a poor self image and these things really effect them in negative ways.

I've had a few college roommates who I wouldn't put it past them to video another roommate having sex, especially if the g/f was really hot. --- though they may be embarrassed, it wouldn't be anything to be ashamed of... and I don't think suicide would have been the out come. As a rule to everyone, just don't do anything that you'll feel ashamed after you've done it.