Ladies, how many of you are getting a feeling that your hubby is more interested in computer than you?

[Michael]

Most men take to the internet because so many women have their face in a book, nook, or kindle. I stopped trying to get my wife to discuss any current event on TV news, because she could never fully involve herself because she was reading.

This is all down time we are discussing. Women zone out and are entertained by different things. If you want your husband to quit being entertained by the computer then you have to find something more entertaining.

Now you may say that it is not my job to entertain my husband. If your not the woman doing, then I will tell you there will be one someway even if it is a woman he created in his head from all the pictures, stories, and posts he reads.

You may say that why doesn't he try to entertain me. I will just about bet that he has tried to, and you didn't find what he likes entertaining and now he is lost for ideas. I would suggest that whatever you went and did or go and do when he tries to get you into what he would think is entertaining, is exactly what he thinks you prefer to do with your time.

Here is the big question you must answer. Pay attention to your habits because this is important. What are the things that your doing whenever your husband starts to walk around complaining about boredom when your totally engaged with what your doing.

Here are some of the things that have led me to start playing, surfing or chatting that began the habits you speak about disliking.

I say I am bored, she says I am not I ....:

want to finish making patterns for a quilt
need to download these recipes from some diet site
am talking to our daughter, or texting our daughter about her day, boyfriend, trip, job hunt...etc
am talking to our son ...... much less time because men hate talking on the phone usually
am talking to my mother, friend back home.
just want to keep in touch with people by checking facebook status an whatever else you do on facebook

I will bet that if you ask your husband why he is on the computer so much it is because he is bored

Before the computer it was playing golf, working on the car, down at the local bar, hanging out with his buddies.

Do you listen when he speaks. I start a conversation on a regular basis with my wife when she is doing something that she likes to do and I want to talk.... she like most men heard very little of what I had to say and could not repeat back to me the very last line or word that I said.

This is not a problem unique to women.

Remember that people usually reap what they sow.... so if your not getting something you want then your probably not giving it to that person... and if you are then you may want to rethink being with or how to interact with a selfish bastard.