Why do these men approach me when they should know I am not interested?

[mpesp]

When you're young and attractive, you are bound to get lots more uninvited attention. With the cousin you should have embarrassed him, and you should have told him firmly that the messages were inappropriate right before you blocked him permanently. Stop being so nice to everybody, when you are nice to these creeps you aren't being nice to your boyfriend and the other people around you who care about you. Yes, block the freaks from your facebook, just because it's someone who you thought was okay, when someone starts causing trouble, kick 'em out. When people talk about you, they should say, she's nice, but don't cross her, she's tough.

And yes, some men really will approach anyone. If they think there's a chance, they will try it, but don't make it easy for them, and then make them sorry they mistook you for someone who would even look twice at a creep.