Spiritually speaking, if you just step back and observe, do things tend to fall into place by themselves?

[Just Be]

What is gained is greater clarity & vision from a POV not so immersed in the thick of it all.
This clarity will allow you to respond more often than just react.
The techniques & practice of being an observer allow one to begin to unhook & be in the world but not of it.
We tend to "fall asleep" during our day when involved with those required activities of living.
Being an observer is a waking & self remembering tool.
The things that happen within & without will still happen, but you will see them in subtle ways you have not before. It is the seeing them from this perspective that will allow changes to occur.
One can not change the cause of what they do not know exists.
Self observation & self remembering are some of the greatest disciplines I have used & reaped benefits from, still do.
The practice won't make you Holy, you are already that, but it will help to clear a place for that which is real & true within to manifest.
Many Blessings!