Just learned that my new husband has been emailing with old Girlfriend on facebook.?

[mommyof3]

My husband and I have an agreement that I do not have men on my facebook other than relatives(my husband does not do facebook, he isn't interested, so the rule needn't apply to him). Even if they were sincerely just my friend in high school, I do not need to keep in touch with them. For what? There are plenty of lady friends for me to keep in touch with. There is no reason for your husband to be friends with a non-related lady on facebook or whatever else. Especially an old girlfriend, for pete's sake. If he is guilty of nothing else, he is making you jealous, which is normal, and he should care about that. Tell him you do not want him to contact other ladies, and you will not contact other men. This is the safest route that will keep your marriage happiest. Ask him how he'd feel if you were contacting old boyfriends, and telling them things about your husband that he didn't want you to tell. If he is honest, he knows good and well he would hate it. If he will not respond, I really don't know what to tell you. I personally would remain in a marriage unless there was unrepentant cheating going on and on. A good man I know once said regarding members of the opposite sex who are not his wife, "I'd rather be a prude than a casualty." So true! Best wishes!