How to win an ex boyfriend back?

[Anna]

To win an ex boyfriend back, you do what to win a boyfriend in the first place!

So pretty much, be the chick who he knows his life will be better with. make him smile, be sweet, be nice, be feminine, be easy going, be willing to laugh at his jokes, and treat what he's saying like the most interesting thing in the world. you dont have to ask him out. you dont have to interrogate him on anything. all you've got to do is be nice and welcoming when he talks to you. if a guy wants to be with you, he will do something about it, unless he's scared. so if you keep being awesome in general, this guy will question whether breaking up with you was the right decision. if he likes you enough, he will make the decision to ask you to get back together with him.

an analogy you might find helpful: just picture this: you are the CEO of your life and he is somebody who is applying to get a job, applying to be part of your life, applying to be your boyfriend. does the CEO chase after employees? No! The CEO keeps being awesome and knows that any employee that is interested enough will keep persevering to get the job. this means DONT ask him where things are going, DONT ask him to get back together with you. let him do that. if he wants it, he'll chase after it