What Should I Say About the Engagement or Should I Not Say Anything?

[zeureeka]

Talk to your brother first. Explain to him that not only is a secret engagement immature and stupid (yeah, that's right, I said it, bring on the thumbs-down, high schoolers, I don't care, because it IS), it's not much of a secret when it's on his facebook page. There is a chance that there is something else going on here (I used to put "married" on my myspace, as I got less spam that way), so give him a chance to speak up.

If he really is engaged, tell him he's telling his parents like a grown up. If he won't do it, you'll have to do it, which sucks, because he should be the one to do it.

Chances are, though, that even if they do get married it won't last. Any time you have to hide how serious your relationship is, it's never good.

Good luck.