Should I tell the son of the relative who sexually molested me? He now has a baby daughter.?

[Mystikal]

that's a hard question to answer.
i was also molested by a family member and i dealt with it for years and years and never told a soul. Finally i told the one person who was closest to me at the time...my brother...and he totally flipped out and told me I was lieing and that "said person" would never do something like that and how I shouldn't say lies like that.
But i wasn't lieing. I was molested for 2years by that person.
I still haven't confronted the person who did it bc im sure it wold ruin a lot of peoples lives. Maybe its better that you don't say anything.
I know that you want to protect the baby but maybe your cousin has changed.
Maybe they arent who they used to be. people change and Im sure that if you were to bring it up, it would change peoples lives, especially since the molester is the parent of the person you want to tell.
If they have a close relationship with eachother, it would probably tear them apart, and you would be solely responsible for that.
Keep an eye on them. Keep your eyes and ears open and if you see any "negative" behavior toward the baby, THEN step in and say something. But only if the baby is in danger. You should also call the police in that case.
You should forgive them in your heart and move on with your life. If you hold on to it, it will tear you up inside and just make things worse.
The way that I got over my molestation was to give forgiveness. Doing that is the hardest thing to so since you felt so violated and dirty and ashamed. But the molestation wasnt your fault and you did not ask for that to happen to you.
Giving forgiveness to the person in your heart is what you need to do, i cant stress that enough.