In the argument that homosexuality is/is not a choice, is there any way that both sides can be correct?

[Bran the Man]

It's hard to say, really.

I'm gay. I've always been homosexual and I've never had even the slightest attraction to someone of the opposite sex. I've been with my boyfriend for five years and we are the most stable couple out of most of the other couples I know (both heterosexual and homosexual). I didn't wake up one day and say, "You know what, I think I'm going to be attracted to men now. I'll also fall in love with one."...the same goes for straight people. They can't "decide" to be attracted to the same sex, and NO ONE can force themselves to fall in love with any random person.

I don't believe anyone chooses it. Someone who is attracted to both men and women is simply bisexual.

The only choice a homosexual person has is whether or not to act on their nature - and yes, it's nature to them, otherwise they'd have been attracted to the opposite sex long before. If a homosexual "chooses" to not pursue a romantic or sexual relationship with the same-sex, that doesn't suddenly make them heterosexual. The feelings are still there.