What all does child support money go to?

[sheloves_dablues]

Child support goes toward the necessities of life. Whatever you are paying her is reimbursement for a portion of the money she has spent on food, shelter, utilities, day care, school fees, entertainment, etc.

You are NOT responsible for supplying a separate wardrobe for your children when they visit you. That said, if she refuses to send clothes, you don't have much of a choice, do you? Just buy them a change of clothes.

As far as toys go, entertainment isn't a necessity. Parents who care about their kids and want them to have toys buy toys...

I suggest you buy your kids a change of clothes and some toys for your house. The reality is that your child support payment doesn't come close to covering half of what your ex spends on the kids on a monthly basis. While I think she's being a bltch, it's not worth the fight. Just do the right thing by the kids..