Should I give my girlfriend my Facebook password?

[Autumn]

Hmmm....the fact that she feels she has to ask for it is worrisome. In a relationship, the first thing that holds you together is trust. If she wants a password to a site that you use to communicate with people, it means that she feels the need to see what you are saying in your hidden messages that the public isn't able to view.

This is the first sign of something that will just continue on and get worse. Eventually you will look around one day and see you have no female friends anymore as well, or many guy friends for that matter. You won't talk to your family as much, and most of your day will be scheduled around her schedule.

This is ultimately a sign that she feels she isn't worth much in a relationship, and a sign that she feels she isn't good enough to keep you around. This is something that you have to really talk to her about. She may say that you should if you have nothing to hide, but in my opinion, she shouldn't want it if she thought you had nothing to hide.

I would bring up the concerns to her, and explain the reason you are uncomfortable with it. If she gets really upset, then maybe she isn't in the place emotionally to be in a stable relationship. Both sides of a couple should be able to respect that the other doesn't like going through something.