How can I get him off my mind?

[Soul Prophet]

The very first thing u need to do is let go of hope of this working out. It’s clear that he doesn’t want to be with you anymore. You need this space in order to get over him, i know you care about him but you can’t have him in your life and move on at the same time. give yourself 30 days of no contact, ideally 90 days. Talking to your ex boyfriend will not help you get over him whatsoever. In fact, it’ll only make things worse. Checking up on him on facebook and twitter is simply self-torture. Stop doing it. Block him on facebook so you can’t follow him, remove him from your newsfeed, do the same on twitter and any other places that remind you of him.

In the meantime, focus on the bad things about him and all the reasons that you dont want to be with him anymore. This will reaffirm the fact that he’s not right for you and make it easier to move on. it will reaffirm the fact that he’s not the person you want to be in a relationship with. this may not feel natural at first but it will stop you from sulking and moping about the loss.

These are just a couple tips that i think will help you. I'll include a link for you in my source box.