Did my boyfriend break up with me because he's confused about his sexuality?

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You are searching for reasons why this relationship came to an end.

However, the guy told you why the relationship had ended - the spark had gone.

Now that's a very common reason for relationships to come to an end. Many relationships do have a natural life and just putter-out towards the end. Regrettably people don't always reach that point together. But there isn't anything you can do about it - it just happens.

Relationships are, in general, emotional rather than logical and you can drive yourself mad trying to search for "logic" in emotion. Equally because it is emotion, it can be hard to describe. He knows that things are over - he can feel it. What he can't do is find the right words to explain it. You can nag at him all you like but you aren't going to get a "logical" explanation and the relationship will still be over anyway.

The "gay" issue is really irrelevant. There's no real evidence one-way-or-another and it would not matter if there was.

The other thing is that, when relationships break up, people need time to get over them. You aren't giving him any space. You want him to text and you want him to continue going out with you. He doesn't want to do either of these things.

Just accept that the relationship is over and that you both need time to come to terms with the end of the relationship.

Give yourself the time and give him the space.