Why am I still so depressed about being homosexual, and why can't I feel happy? Will it ever get better?

[Michael]

My brother Bruno you're depressed because you're not gay and deep down in your heart you know it.

A person is neither born gay nor straight. A person is simply born, God's creation.

To be honest we all can be attracted to both sexes. No matter how straight a Guy or a girl is they can be aroused by the same sex. Example: If you put a Guy or a girl in a room alone and make them watch a gay porn a hundred, a thousand, or 10,000 times, they're bound to get an erection or orgasm at least one time.

That is why the Bible tells us not to have sexual relations with the same sex in the Old and New Testament. God knew that having gay and lesbian sex would be a temptation to some just as having sex with a family member is a temptation to some. He simply tells us not to act on it.

Here's where the difference between gays and straights come in. Some heterosexuals may have some homosexual thoughts or feelings in the past but they didn't act on them. Homosexuals they get the thoughts and the feelings and they act on it.

A 13 year old boy may watch a gay porn for the first time and realize he gets an erection. That doesn't mean he's gay I'm pretty sure he would get an erection watching dogs and ducks have sex. But the boy chooses to act on his feelings and continues to watch gay porn. After a certain point he will consider himself a homosexual and I'm sure he would become more attracted to males as a result. It doesn't mean he was born gay, it doesn't mean he isn't straight. He simply enjoys the same sex sexually.

So, it's not a choice to be gay it's a lifestyle.

Just as a young girl can grow up attracted to her brother. I'm sure plenty girls think their brother is cute at one point. Some choose not to act on it but a few accept it and grow up to be more and more attracted to their brother. But they weren't born only attracted to same family sex.

But we have to avoid that lifestyle as God says. It is only a temptation of this world.

We don't want to hate our homosexual brothers and sisters that would make us hypocrites. We should love our neighbor as we love ourself.

That's the truth.
God Bless