Girls, Why is she telling me to leave her alone nicely?

[melissa]

Okay I'm gonna lay out what just happened with her step-by-step for you:
BEFORE she surprised you:
--she liked you and wanted to date you.
--she wasn't sure about going clubbing because she actually wanted to date you--not just sleep with you.
AFTER she surprised you:
--she didn't like the photo... actually she was mad you went home with another girl when she thought you guys were starting to date.
--she's saying she's busy to test you--it's a stupid rule some idiot woman wrote about in a book. If a guy is really worth it and wants to go on a date on the weekend, he has to schedule the date with you by Wednesday. It's kind of a whole play-hard-to-get-thing (kind of)... more to see whether or not you actually care enough to keep pursuing her. (Or whether you'll just run off again and sleep with another girl).
--she will never go clubbing with you until you man up and stop sleeping around...she thinks you're a man whore.

Point blank, dude... you messed up, and there's no fixing it until you grow up. She probably does still like you, but obviously she's WAY too good for you (and obviously much more mature). She's being nice to you because she's a good person and yelling isn't in her nature. Do her a favor and stay away. Keep taking home the bar sluts, because you don't deserve a good girl until you start thinking with your brain and heart instead of your di**.