invasion of privacy? PLEASE HELP!!?

[Max]

This is a huge invasion of your privacy and is defiantly not necessary. The difficulty here is that your step mum believes that what she's doing is right. If you have never been caught causing trouble then there is no reason for her behavior other than an irrational fear for your safety or, she is trying to make your life miserable (the first is much more likely). I would suggest that you talk with your Dad (if you haven't already) and tell him how uncomfortable the situation is making you. If that does not change anything I would tell her to stop the relentless invasion of your privacy and if it carries on buy a lock for your door. Confronting people is always hard but by standing up for yourself you will hopefully prove to your step Mum that you are mature enough to live your own life. I hope this helps.