My 12 year old daughter is out of control!!!?

[MissLothrop]

This is ridiculous. While I could rant,I won't. As much as you don't want to be really tough on her, you're going to have to be, unless you want to be a grandparent within the next year or two. Take her to a therapist, because there has to be a reason she's acting like that. Make her change her name back to Caroline, that fact that she has a "stripper name" is the dumbest thing I've ever heard. Delete her Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, etc. Make her take her piercings out, and all of her jewelry, and get rid of it, sell it, whatever. Take her makeup away, and put it somewhere that you, and only YOU know where it is. Sell her clothes, and use that money to go shopping at like a thrift store for normal, parent approved clothes. As for the bullying, get her into anger management therapy or something. I know they have programs (haha, like in Drake and Josh) where they will simulate what it's like to be processed and put into jail. Isolate her from all other people, and give her an early curfew.