Best Friend's Over Protective Boy Friend?

[Jocelyn]

I think you really have to talk about this with 'Kevin'. Don't be afraid to express your feelings, and tell him how much his actions have affected you. It seems like hes more possessive and possibly jealous than over-protective. Talk to him and tell him that you've tried to back down because you understood him at first but things are getting out of hand and tell him how much you're hurting from all of this. Hopefully you guys can come to some sort of compromise. But firstly you have to try to make him understand that there should be no reason for him to be jealous of your relationship with Haley. Does 'Haley' truly know how you feel about all of this? Talk to her about it as well and let her know how much you've been affected by all of this and tell her how much your friendship with her means to you and you don't want it to change because of 'Kevin'. Let her know that you do understand where he might be coming from because it seems like you do. If she understands hopefully she can talk to Kevin about it and if things still don't change, unfortunately theres nothing you can do about it. After you talked to Haley about it and if things still don't change that might just been she chose her relationship with 'Kevin' over your friendship, or that your friendship is important but not as important as her relationship with Kevin. To be honest these kind of things are normal when friends go into relationships as relationships are more time consuming and than regular friendships and quite often you will see friends growing more distant with their friends because they now put the majority of their focus on their boyfriend or girlfriend. It sucks, but if the relationship is what Haley chooses, the only real thing you can do is just be happy for her. Good luck!