Is this any reason for my boyfriend to be upset?

[peedmilk]

I used to be just like him...it took alot for me to get out of that... he just cares about you alot.. and is very threatened by anyone who might take you away, in fact. he will prob. be threatened by me sending you this message. i used to be very possessive with whom i was with. it drove me crazy to see old photos like that... it almost took over my life. it got so bad that i was hacking her old emails and looking through history....it was a very low point for me...it took a good friend to show me how obsessive i was becoming for me to realize what i was putting my gf through. its hard to understand now why i was ever like that. but i know how he feels... its really scary now looking back. i hope the best for you two and just know.. he only does this because he is afraid of loosing you. take care

oh also, she dumped me for it and broke my heart... i mean it DESTROYED me. ...two years larer i thanked her for helping me become a better person. sometimes thats just what it takes
i was upset yes but... i know she loved me... and i cant imagine how difficult it was for her to hurt me like that...but it had to be done.. i was becoming this...obsessive...thing haha. we are good friends now.