I don't trust my boyfriend with Facebook or a cellphone, what's his deal? why can't I trust him?

[Carol]

Bottom line is, if you don't trust someone you CANNOT really love them. Find someone you trust who also trusts you. I know it's hard to leave someone if there is a child or if you've been together a long time but think of it this way... How will it be five years from now when you are still with someone who does not trust you and therefore does not respect you? Also, how would it feel to have someone who really did love you, trust you, respect you? And wouldn't that person make a good step father too?
Life can be hard but please please please, don't waste a minute in a relationship that is not right.
I know from lots of experience. Life is short. Live it with passion and trust and joy in it. Anything else is a waste of life and you will one day regret it terribly.
Good luck and be brave.