How is arranged/forced marriage acceptable for you?

[Blue lagoon]

Of course I'm not talking about arrange marriage when the Bride and groom are happy and gave approval. I'm talking the kind of arrange marriage when parents put pressure on their daughter ( or son but it's usually on their daughter unfortunately) to marry someone she obviously doesn't want to. How can loving parents give such torment to their children and in extreme cases ruin their lives? Forced marriages could be as well physical violence (beatings), mental violence (threats of killing you, threats of disowning you, committing suicide, emotional blackmailing etc...) Are these parents really sadistic or plain stupid? Stupid in the sense they don't understand anything and stick to tribal traditions? Why is the India government not fighting to educate their populations? Now the UK as to deal with these kind of backward immigrants, protect their British-born Indian citizen from forced marriage, abuse, honor killings....from their own families. When do you think India is going to ''grow up'' ?