Why does he treat me this way? please read and give advice im feeling so low :(?

[E Scott]

He has trust issues and sounds controlling. It's his problem not yours. In a relationship you shouldn't feel that someone is keeping track of things... you should be able to do things off the grid- at the same time, he probably has trust issues for a reason... someone abandoned him, hurt him- so be reassuring but you need to put your foot down and not be controlled by it. Honestly it sounds all very unhealthy. It doesn't mean run away... it means maybe both of you could benefit from relationship therapy... read the book "stop walking on eggshells" sounds like he might have a personality disorder... and abusive tenancies. emotionally abuse is sometimes worse than physical abuse!