How are some ways I can meet men?

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In times past, a girl's main goal was to find a man to marry her. A girl needed a male to support her financially, protect her, and, of course, to have children with. Any girls who were unfortunate enough not to find a male by the time they were eighteen were dubbed as being "Old Maids".

In modern times, a girl usually works outside the home whether she's married or not. She can support herself, protect herself quite well, and, with the help of adoption agencies and sperm banks, she can even have children without the need to marry. Any girls who remain unmarried now can refer to themselves as being, "Independent Women of the New Millennium."

But, there are several advantages of meeting men and finding a special one for yourself. If you're having trouble with this process, then try to liven up your love life by using these tips:

1. Expand Your Social Horizons

You may already have an active social life. On Sundays, maybe you can be found in church. Monday nights may find you volunteering at the local women's shelter. And, maybe you play computer games and have pizza with some girl friends on Friday night.

While these activities are fine, the likelihood that you're going to meet guys is low. So, why not expand your social horizons to increase your chances? You can bowl on a mixed league or attend other sports events such as car races, tennis tournaments, fishing events, and organized softball games. Or, you can become interested in local causes that hold weekly meetings. Whatever you choose, just make sure that the event is one that men would attend too.

2. Try "Word of Mouth" Advertising

You've undoubtedly heard of this type of advertising. It works because one person tells another person who tells another, and so on. By nature, we tend to believe what someone tells us. Therefore, if a friend tells us that XYZ product is great, then we'll probably believe it!

Why not use word of mouth advertising to your advantage? Let your family, friends, and coworkers know that you are looking to meet men. Add in a few descriptive tidbits about yourself, and the word has started its long journey! They will undoubtedly pass this information on to others they know, and on to others, and on to others! You could actually end up meeting someone's sister's neighbor's brother from Timbuktu!

3. Utilize Your Local Newspaper's Ads

Don't be afraid to pay to put a personal ad in your local newspaper! Maybe you think you're not a beauty, or that your personality is dull, and that you're too shy to try this tip. But, what can it hurt?

If you don't find the man of your dreams, you're sure to meet many men as long as your ad is interesting.

So, what makes an ad interesting? Include items about yourself that would catch a man's eye!

Instead of saying, "likes to crochet", say, "enjoys hiking". Or, instead of saying "loves kids"- a line that might scare a guy away, say "loves to play computer games".

As you can see, in order to meet men, you need to put yourself in the same social places as men are.

You also need to make it known that you're looking - don't be shy! And, finally, you need to let men know that you have an interest in hobbies, sports, and other activities that they are interested in too!