ARE MEN BEING FORCED TO BECOME GAY IN TODAY'S SOCIETY?

[Neil]

Nah, you're being very dramatic, that's kinda why this happens.
You're so defensive, that people will think you protest 'to much'.

Stop generalizing girls, people, and yourself, and others will stop generalizing you. Because what you're saying about girls, tells us, you don't actually know any girls, you portray them as this abstract 'group', not as people, or individuals.
You know not every guy is the same(after all, you said, you're different), so why would you pretend, all girls are the same.

Gay, or Straight is really irrelevant, just be YOU, stop 'defending' who you are, or blaming 'girls' for you being you, and simply be you.

Focus on your skills, and talents, don't focus on everything you're not.