Guys! Please help me with crush advice?!?

[Obi Wan Knievel]

OK, I'll help.

What you need to do is take that big step and kick it up to the next level. He's obviously not going to do this (maybe he's as shy as you are), so it's all up to you. Hey, nobody ever said this stuff was easy.

Anyway, here's how you do it. You need to wait until the next opportunity, then kick down a few barriers and say hi to him. Yes I know that's difficult. I'm a guy, and it's not any easier for us when we have to do it. In fact it's harder, because you don't hear about too many female serial rapists in the news. But it's not risky, because nobody ever got rejected flat-out just for saying hi to a guy. Even if he has no interest in you at all, the odds that he'll say hi back are something like 99% if not better.

You don't need to focus on landing that first date, and don't even bother worrying about the house and 2.3 kids with him. Just work on saying hi, and go from there. I know you want to think about all that stuff and every other what-if you can come up with, but just focus on saying one or two words with him for now. You can worry about all that other stuff later.

Trust me, once you do it you'll realize how easy it was and get a huge boost of confidence.