I want to make peace with my ex 2 years after a TERRIBLE breakup. Bad idea?

[Arrogantcreature796]

What lawyer wrote up a cease and desist letter for her employer over personal BS on her blog? I hope you didn't pay money for that, it was wasted. She did nothing illegal, though it is petty and stupid.

I would suggest you stop stalking her online, then you wouldn't know what she wrote and move on with your life for real. You haven't really if she is still taking up this much emotional energy for you. Devote your time and energy to the new woman. It is unfair to her that you continue to be looking backwards and involving yourself in drama for no reason.

Your ex is petty and immature, but you are not acting any better by continuing to contribute to it. So stop doing that. You will feel better and I'm sure your fiance will like it as well. Once the ex realizes you are no longer paying attention, I suspect she will find new people to write about.