advice on my marriage & husband??!!?

[JMD]

I was married to someone who acted in a veery similar way although we had no children. It is important to some men to let the world see they have the perfect life. Once everyone is convinced of this they then feel it is safe to lead the life they really want to lead, but because the rest of the world see this perfect family environment nobody suspects. It took me 23 years to discover what my husband was up to and once I found out he got kicked out. So instead of dwelling on what he is doing you need to ask yourself what are YOU going to do. Leave him, kick him out or put up with him. This might sound cruel but if he is anything like my husband you will be well down on his list of priorities.