Am I right to find this one of the more disturbing things about social media?

[timelord1962]

I totally agree with you.

All of the updates being shared between different social networking sites and all of my contacts on each,is rather invasive,
I don't want to share every single thing that I say and do with everyone.

The thing that ticks me off,especially about facebook,is these things are defaulted as Enabled.That's not right.They should be defaulted as Disabled.
That way they won't be on without you knowing.You would have to deliberately go into your settings and enable it.

And Dean is right.Spokeo makes me very nervous about invasion of privacy,identity theft,cyber-stalking and other things.