How do i deal with her sneaky ex and this stupid situation?

[moca]

This always works and never fails.

Talk to her about it very calmly , do not yell at her do not get angry, simply be calm and controlled and ask her about it and try find a way that works for both of you.

If she does not want to do anything and she keeps hurting you and giving you crap. Then just dump her.


Iknwo it was two years, but if she is going to be acting like that then she isn't worth it in the long run. It's better just to find someone else who does not use trashy tactics.

The truth is though, she may have been hurt about somethign so, when you ask her whats up

Do it like this...

"hey, did I do something that caused you to do that?"

"what can I do to make it better?"


Do not say

"YOU did this!" or "ITS YOUR FAULT!"
Or " WHY DID YOU DO THIS?"

try to avoid blaming her for the situation bc itcan make her defensive

good luck baby