I need some help make sure I'm not over thinking?

[D R]

Well first off how old are you two and how long have you been dating?

Have you discussed and are you in a mutually exclusive relationship?

Depending on how long you have been dating, I'd say if he has been acting odd and ignoring you he is questioning his feelings for you and your relationship. I find it odd that he is still in contact at all with ex-girlfriends while you two are dating, that isn't right and depending on what is said in emails/texts....it can be considered a form of cheating. Cheating isn't just a physical thing, it is emotional too. How long has he been separated form any of these girls and are they married (or old enough to be married..)?

Is it possibly that you are clingy? If he says you are clingy ask him, in person or over the phone, how exactly are you clingy and when. Ask him for examples and situations so you can be aware of what you are allegedly doing. I don't know how you think he is making a fool out of you? He is obviously struggeling with his feelings or possibly fooling around on you...you don't know for sure and he hasn't done anything directly to you.

I personally wouldn't go and stay with him. If he want's to see you, tell him to come to you.