My husband cheated on me for the second time what do I do?

[Si Si.]

Dear girl..you are not the first and certainly won`t be the last with this problem in a marriage.The thing is,people stay in unsatisfactory marriages for many reasons. financial...children...lack of confidence. It really depends what is more important to you.If the house and financial situation is the most important {and one can understand} then you can stay,but don`t fool yourself you can have it all..not with this man.You can have the marriage and a semblance of stability,but there will be cost.The cost is your self esteem and self worth.The unfortunate outcome is that if you do stay with him you then become an enabler of his behavior and he knows for sure then you will put up with it,so will indulge even more.What you might need is to plan your way out of it. Get career or job training if you can..Look at alternative accommodation..plan how you would mange the children.Perhaps join a single parent group for support and advice..This would help to give you confidence in your decision,so that if you really wish to go you know you can manage...Good luck