Why would someone make up these lies?

[john]

First off I have to say... "Once a cheater, always a cheater" is NOT true at all. I don't know your husband at all or his and your circumstances. But I once was a big cheater, not to brag. I had to grow up and realize that dating a few different women at a time is nothing good at all. It shows bad character. And second, about the not telling you anout the crazy ex when you two began to see each other. Is a tough one, you can look at it from two points, one it could have been a bad thing to tell you maybe you wouldn't have dated him and I'm assuming he liked you, but also letting you know about the crazy ex could have been a good thing so you wouldn't be unaware of her. Nowadays there is no telling what someone would do over love, let me use a different word "obsession" I've had those obsessed women after me too. But my point is if he and you are together happily married dont let anyone bring that down, especially not a jealous ex, they'll say ANYTHING. Best of luck to you too.