Alright ladies and gents....tough question.?

[Holly Janessen]

I don't think I would write him a letter, even though that is very beautiful and thoughtful. I think it might come off as too keen. Why don't you ask him out for coffee? or something simple and non intimidating, try to flirt with him, see how he reacts. It is hard to know truly what someone is like until you have dated him, even though you have known him for awhile, what if he picks his nose or farts loudly in public? all very possible. ( disgustingly enough, it is SO true) What I am saying is go for a more casual non intimidating approach, lunch at a new cafe? or a walk? outdoor movie? and get to know him more. To be 100% honest the letter might come off as stalker-ish. Lastly don't put all eggs in one basket, I once was head over heels for someone and it ended horrifically. So be careful I know what I said it is a bit harsh but it is better to hear it from me, then to learn it the hard way.

Good luck!