A year later my ex contacted me?

[AmandaGreg]

Well, since your asking this question I have came to the conclusion that he still crosses your mind sometimes? I mean.. I have an ex where it will never work out be he still holds a place in my heart kinda thing? Nevertheless, he probably is lonely and needs someone to lean on. If you care about him (not saying you want to be with him but saying on a you don't want anything bad to happen to him factor) I would recommend making sure everything's okay. Be kind and understanding. Maybe he just needs closure. Tell him you are currently in a relationship and that you can't reciprocate the feelings he has. If he's a good person I feel like he'll respect that.. If he really isn't over you had might have so hard time accepting that. Bug like I said its closure for him.. And for yourself also.. I'm not implying that you aren't over him. But clearly he hasn't accepted it's over with you. I don't know why had waited so long to get in touch. Perhaps he was reminiscing. Or maybe he realized he loved you after letting the relationship go. Hope I was helpful- I'm not a guy so I don't fully understand their intentions.