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Im Muslim and I think someone made a rumor about me.?
02-24-2014, 09:27 PM
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That certainly is not something nice to experience. I can relate as I too went through something similar a few years back. You are growing up and with that come responsibility. Some people mature quicker than others and with that rumours are spread like wild fire (Based on some people not being mature as they think).

It will be a challenge but stick to your morals and values. It really sucks to feel alone and isolated but reaching out to people that simply judge you based on rumours (Especially when they supposed to know you so well) rather than simply asking you about it, says a lot about them and how your relationships were valued.

You have not done anything wrong and should not feel guilty. Take it one day at a time and just simply be you. You will find good friends with the same morals and values as yourself. Meet friends who will confront you rather than shunt you. Those are true friends that you can argue with and be completely honest with, knowing they will be around to argue back and first find out the truth before telling you if/when you are wrong. (Rather than just deciding you are wrong and adding more fuel to the rumours.)

Just make duah, focus on yourself and the loved ones in your life and see how everything falls into place. In sha allah it will get easier with time.

Hope that was helpful
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[] - TheMomOfTwins - 02-24-2014, 09:18 PM
[] - Faith_Infinity - 02-24-2014, 09:20 PM
[] - Micky - 02-24-2014 09:27 PM

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