Is My Dad Cyber Cheating?

[J]

This is a delicate situation. Confront your dad, and he will only try to hide it even more, or maybe even start lying about it. Tell mom, and then cause big problems.

Your parents have their own set of issues. She may know already, and they aren't ready to split up because of you. She may not know, or have proof. Or, they just do their own thing. Grown up relationships can get quite complicated. It's best to either stay out of it, or only talk to dad at this point. If it took him a while to answer the door, he probably had to get dressed (or at least pull up his pants). In a lot of ways this is considered cheating. It's being intimate or sexual with someone else other than his wife. Most guys play it off as 'harmless', since there's no actual physical contact between them and the female on the screen (whether Skype or porn). Truth is, it does affect the connection to his wife sexually and intimately. Everyone has needs. But there's a line between needs and selfish desires.