I don't know what to do about this guy?

[Heather]

I would probably cut it off. I can't stand obsessive guys, especially if they're obsessive from the beginning. I feel like if a guy is obsessive from the start, they're probably going to start being controlling eventually too. As far as if you guys should be friends or if you should just completely cut things off, I guess that's really up to you. In my experience, if you push back and try to just be friends with an obsessive guy, they just become even more obsessive. I was supposed to go out with a guy tonight who was slightly obsessive so I cancelled and he's sent me 7 texts and left 2 voicemails. It sounds like the guy you're talking about is kind of crazy if he's messaging you that much.