Why do I get upset & sad at the thought of my EX fiancee being with another woman?

[Nancy M]

You need to stop thinking about the guy and you do deserve better than a man who is abusive to you. If you start to think about him & the terrible things that he has done then think about better things. If he wants to be a liar then that is his problem. Not yours. Be glad that you are no longer in is life. He could still be treating the other woman terrible like you. She could eventually find out what he is. Most men don't ever change for the better. I was also married to a man who had treated me terrible. I didn't think that I would ever get out but I did. My ex remarried and he also treated the other woman just like me. I really didn't care any more. I was happy to finally be out of the abuse I had went through.