Ex start a conversation then just stop? please help?

[Mandie Lynn]

Well he hasn't found someone stable since he has been with you and it seems that he can see you are doing very well while he is doing not so well. He may be missing you because right now his life is sucking, maybe hoping that if he can get back with you, life will be better. However if things didn't work well for 2 years, they most likely would fall back into the same pattern eventually. I would not let him convince you to turn your decision around, even for one time sex or anything because he seems like the type that won't get off once they are on. Continue trying to avoid him unless necessary but don't be a bitch and if he does ask to get back together, simply tell him that you are happier now and don't want the old pattern to make your life unhappy. In the meantime, try to set him up with someone or suggest someone that is more into his choices and lifestyle. You can always hope for a happy ending.