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I have a brother that was put up for adoptions and I was wondering what is the best way to try and find him?
03-21-2014, 03:36 AM
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You would be best to ask your mother about this. If your brother is still a child , finding him may not be a good thing at the moment as he would have many issues about it. He may not even know that he is adopted. You have to weigh up the balance of "who is going to benefit from this ?" If the only person who wants to do this is you, then I'd stop right there because finding adopted people is a minefield of emotional trauma which can leave a lot of people damaged.

Ask your mother about the adoption - I'm sure there were very good reasons for it. Don't just decide to go looking. Here is some information, but you'd need your mother's cooperation. https://www.childwelfare.gov/pubs/f_sear...view=Steps in the Search Process

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