How do I know this girl is not a Fake?

[justme]

Yeah! I get them all the time. Let me tell you, in reality 'she' is most likely a 'he' working his computer in a little shack with a group of other 'lovely Nigerian ladies' offer 'her' encouragement, and in a few days you will get a sob story about being robbed or a sudden death in the family, and she urgently needs a short-term loan to sort it out. Or she will invite you over to visit her ("She' will, by now, have sent you a beautiful photo of 'herself') then she will offer to get your airline tickets from her end --They will be much cheaper that way. Just send her a bank cheque to cover the payment.
You getting the picture?