i talked behind my friend's back and she found out, what do i do?

[Siddhant Dubey]

well once even i talked behind my friends back for a girl kind of the way you did and that girl eventually became my gf so be became more angry and then i didn't even want to be her bf and he is not talking to me. it has been like 3 years. so it depends on how your friend is. because some friends accept apology and some dont even after a hundred tries like mine. so try following this steps---->FIRST you need to actually need to feel sorry deep inside and understand your mistakes. Then vow not to repeat them. You need to make sure you understand how important that relationship is for you only then can you act to improve upon it. You can't again disrespect your friend and at the same time plan to gain his trust back. You have to genuinely act in a manner which would gain you the trust back.......SECOND be patient..........THIRD In order to gain the trust back, you need to make real sacrifices. Like canceling something that you wanted out of consideration for the other person. Let your friend get a feeling that you are all for him/her, but make sure you don’t mention that it was for her that you sacrificed your wishes. Doing so may have a counter effect and undo all the process made. You need to let go of other temptations in your life........FOURTH Now that someone has lost trust in you, you need to think about how you lost that trust, where you went wrong, and how to earn back their trust. Was this a one time incident or a pattern or let downs. You may need to allow time to "cool off" before going forward. Be prepared to have all your defenses down. If you go in angry and frustrated, you will not succeed and will probably make things worse.............FIFTH surprise her frequently with some expensive gifts or something she really loves it doesn't matter if she doesn't accept them just give it to her in a unusual way. and keep on surprising her.........SIXTH surrender your privacy Give them access to all your e-mail and Facebook accounts and show them your call history on your cell phone. Show them you have nothing to hide and aren't doing anything behind their back...........SEVENTH apologize even if she doesn't care send her apology letters and make her feel that you are guilty!!!.........EIGHTH Give HER time. Sometimes the person just needs some space or time to see for themselves that you understand what you did wrong, and have adjusted your behavior to prevent the same thing from happening again. It takes time for people to see that you have altered your behavior. AND IF SHE ACCEPTS THE APOLOGY AND FORGIVES YOUR MISTAKES.... YOU ARE DONE!!!!!!!!! i hope this helps too long though..D>>>