Why am I bittersweet seeing my ex move on?

[abbeycoolit]

Your feelings at knowing that your ex has moved on is understandable.Your relationship was long distance ,you were doing your thing and he was doing his and his produced three kids.You left him,walked away and never looked back. This action made him a free man and he met some other woman and he is now very happy with her .He told his gal about you which is a sign of his affection for you,said he would always talk to you( a sign that all is forgotten and forgiven),and even invited you to his wedding and you declined.This suggests that you may still have latent feelings for him and maybe harbored a hope that you guys might get back together.That is why his getting married is so bittersweet because it means that he is lost to you.However,he is not yet married so who knows?