Relationship help!!!?

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By you staying you allowed his behavior to keep manifesting itself. Bu staying you are telling him that its ok for him to keep seeking his desires everywhere but with you. This would technically be cheating. You shouldnt have to snoop around in a relationship. If you dont have trust than you dont have anything. You shouldnt be hovering over him and correcting him as if you are his mother. He is immature. And oh lets not even talk about the lying! Lying is disrespectful and basically that tells you that he doesnt think you are worthy to be told the truth and its an insult to your intelligence. Its not your responsibility to make it confortable for him to tell the truth. That should be the absolute minimum based on his character. Him lying and cheating has nothing to do with you more than it has to do with his character. You cant change what he does but you can change what you accept. You get what you accept. You needed to establish boundaries and left a long time ago. There is no giving him a break. You need to leave for good unless you want to totally have your self esteem obliterated and waste time on something that is dead and wont ever grow or be what you had hoped for it to be.