My man blocked me on social media?

[Margot]

I would be interested in what you consider to be a flirty comment.

Here's the thing...if I were dating someone who openly flirted with women, he would not make the cut. He would be gone. You don't trust your bf. Why would you want to sleep in the same bed for the next 40 years of your life with someone you do not trust?

If I were 42 years old and my bf was acting like a jealous 16 year old and closely monitoring my FB activities...and then having other people spy on him for me...I would block my bf from social media also.

At 42, he is exactly as he presents himself. He is not going to change. If he is a flirt and inappropriate, he will always be a flirt and inappropriate. You are treating a grown man as though he is a boy.

Personally, I only married a man that I knew I could trust. I didn't have to wait for him to change. He was always that way. Let's say you decide that you've worked things through and get married. Five years from now when you are married and he is chatting inappropriately with other women in social media, you have zero right to complain. Huh? You know exactly who he is and you think that be tightly controlling him and treating him like a 5 year old boy is going to change him. You know who he is and if you get married to him, then you volunteer to have a husband who flirts with and is inappropriate with women on social media.